A good marriage needs a good man with three values.

A good marriage needs a good man with three values.

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I have read a sentence:

"A good man is a rarity of this era."

I think so, because many men have "disappeared" from their families.

Family and career are the two most important things for men. They should have achieved each other and should not care about one at the expense of the other.

the temperature of a family cannot be separated from the participation of men.

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A good man decides the emotional temperature of husband and wife

listen to friend Xiaoyu regret it after giving birth to her second child for three months.

her husband gave birth at home for six days and went to work.

the eldest son's mother-in-law brings it, and the youngest daughter Xiaoyu brings it herself.

she feels that having a second child is asking for trouble.

my husband spends most of his time socializing outside, and he doesn't get enough sleep every day, let alone help take care of the children.

once Xiaoyu was cooking in the kitchen when suddenly there was no gas and there was no answer when she called her husband several times.

she smashed the computer in anger, and the two quarreled to the point of divorce.

two days after the cold war, my husband took the initiative to be courteous, pretended to be milk powder, did housework, and coaxed the children.

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who knows, in less than half a day, my husband collapsed:

2 hours filled with milk powder, 3 hours to change diapers, 6 times at night, his whole person fell into a state of extreme fatigue.

at this time, he understood his wife.

in fact, when people reach middle age, it is not easy for both men and women. Men suffer outside and women suffer at home.

only when you have really experienced it, can you understand what it means to compare your heart to heart and put yourself in your shoes.

husbands should not be the luxuries of the times. Good men all know that the purpose of marrying a wife is not to have children or to be a babysitter, but to work together for the rest of your life, respect and love each other.



I think so.

what cause you sow, what fruit you get. A man with hard cards will not have too bad luck.

for a man, the best investment in life is to be good to his wife.

A good relationship between husband and wife is never maintained by one person, and only through joint participation can there be a good ending.

after all, how can you sweep the world without sweeping a house?

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A good man decides the temperature of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

some time ago, the variety show "mother-in-law and mother" asked Lin Zhiying, a good man, to set up a car.

on Mother's Day, Lin Zhiying took his wife Chen Ruoyi home to visit her mother.

in order to please her mother-in-law, Chen Ruoyi also prepared a gift.

as soon as she entered the house, Chen Ruoyi was snubbed by her mother-in-law: "Why don't you zip up?"

Chen Ruoyi explained hurriedly that the clothes were designed in this way.

Mama Lin continued to ask, "it's impolite to wear shorts."

Chen Ruoyi was frightened by her mother-in-law's relentless criticism.

but Lin Zhiying, as her husband, has an intriguing reaction.

he sat beside him like a mute, neither speaking for his wife nor defending his mother, ignoring the problem directly.

this matter, let Lin Zhiying on the hot search, was scolded very miserably by netizens.

the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an extension of the relationship between husband and wife, and often becomes the fuse of family wars.

basically, the mother-in-law has the permission of her husband for any attitude towards her wife.

the worst relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is that the husband becomes an accomplice to his mother-in-law and hurts his wife.

the most troublesome relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is that the mother-in-law is unreasonable and the husband is indifferent.

tell me about my best friend Qiuzi.

Qiuzi needs to change several sets of clothes on her wedding day.

her mother-in-law kept urging her to hurry up, saying that all the guests were leaving.

in the middle of braiding her hair, her mother-in-law said yes, and Qiu Zi was particularly aggrieved.

Qiuzi's husband yelled at his mother, "Don't rush it, it's almost done."

the mother-in-law said, "the guests are leaving."

my husband took Qiuzi by the hand and said, "Today we are getting married. They just wait if they are willing to wait, but they don't want to wait."

Mother-in-law has nothing to say.

after the wedding, the husband said, "Mom, I'm sorry, I know you're in a hurry. I shouldn't yell at you." Your attitude is not good, you have no scruples about the feelings of Qiuzi. She didn't know you either. She thought you were difficult to get along with. I don't want you two to be affected by that little thing. It's not worth it. "

my mother-in-law smiled and said, "I'm so narrow-minded. My wife must hurt me."

so far, Qiuzi has a stable relationship with his mother-in-law.

Wu Zhihong said: "the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually a triangular relationship between mother-in-law, son and daughter-in-law, and the core is the son."

the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is like a bridge, and men are the bridges that support it.

only when men attach importance to and participate in it can the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law warm up.